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Remind yourself that your bedroom is the only place in the apartment you
truly have control over. Decorate or furnish your room, so that you have one
haven in the apartment. You must compromise over the common areas.
It is hard for many tidy flatmates to understand why their messy
flatmates wait so long to clean the dishes or take the trash out. Remind
yourself that not everyone works on the same cleaning schedule. While some
prefer to clean and pick up after themselves every day or every other day,
others clean once a week or every other week. If your flatmate cleans a little
less often than you do, resist the urge to force your flatmate into your
schedule. Instead, try compromising on the number of days dishes are allowed to
sit in the sink or when trash must be taken out.
Also, try dividing the chores. You can take out the trash and
your flatmate cleans the dishes. This may help your messy flatmate focus on
only a few chores and develop a habit of keeping certain areas clean. If you do
this, make sure to assign yourself chores that you care most about, so that you
can be certain these will get done.
Consider hiring a cleaning service. Talk to your flatmate about
splitting the cost of a cleaning person. This may take some of the burden off
of you and get your flatmate financially involved in keeping your apartment.